​What Is the Difference Between What I Want to Know and What I Need to Know for a Reading?

I have been asked over the years “why do you give clients the opportunity to ask questions as part of their email reading?”

The answer is simply that email readings are channeled and done through channeling and automatic writing (through clairvoyance, claircognizance, clairalience, clairsentience, empath feeling, clairaudience and more)and when I channel information, I ask your guides and mine that you get information that you NEED to know.

Because I am channeling information you need to know – it is also likely that you have things you want to know too. So not all information you want to know will come out – only what you need to know in that moment. This is where “questions” come in. Giving you questions or concerns that you want touched upon gives you a window to gain both types of information – things you need to know and things you want to know. 80% of the time, what you need to know correlates with what you want to know – meaning, when I channel for you (before I read your questions) most of the time your questions are answered within the channeling portion. But then I further elaborate on them individually in the questions section.

What you need to know: This is purely information given to you through channeling. It isn’t preplanned or asked about. It is information that your guides and mine feel you need to know in that moment. It might not be what you wanted to know about, but it is what they felt was important for you to know in that moment. And it is worth noting; sometimes what we need to know isn’t what we want to hear. Maybe we aren’t ready to hear the truth of our situation(s) but over time we usually end up figuring it all out and become ready to make the changes, improvements or are accepting of things, information, situations, etc.

What you want to know: Most of us have things we want to know or concerns we have in life that we want touched upon. Because these concerns we have may not come out in the channeling portion of the reading, I offer you questions so you can have these specific areas touched upon regardless of what is channeled. It is worth noting here too that the answers to your questions or concerns, may not be what you want to hear. Sometimes we get answers to things that we think are absurd because we aren’t ready to hear it, or deal with it. But over time, we end up learning, accepting and being ready for things in our own time.

Validations: I would also say that most of the time, readings from me serve as a validation for what you already feel, think, sense, or know. Sometimes you are kind of thrown a “curve ball” or something you weren’t expecting, but I would say 75% of the time, I am validating what you already know or what you are looking for validation on. And most of the time I have no idea what you want to know about – questions are optional. So you can be validated by me – through a reading – without my having any information about you (except your first name and where to email the reading to).